Mistress AlexInterview with Mistress Alex

Age:  People often say that I look like I’m in my mid-30’s or younger and I usually agree with them.

Hair Color:  Halo of curly blonde hair

Eye Color:  Hypnotic brown eyes

Measurements:  I’m tall and athletic, do weights and yoga regularly, and ride my bike almost daily.

Education:  I have two master’s degrees and this fall I’m starting a PhD in human sexuality.

Affiliation:  I’ve been a professional dominant for 8 or 9 years, and an independent for the last 5 or 6 years.  I have a private play space in Manhattan that I share with my good friend and long time dungeon mate Mistress Veronica.

Favorite Activities:  I always say that I will never switch, but I will admit to being an academic masochist.  I adore learning, hence the pile up of degrees, so that takes up a lot of my free time.  Except this summer!  I am incredibly social and spend as much time as possible with my friends and play partners, and I make appearances at fetish parties when I can.

Favorite Movies:   I watch a lot of movies, in and out of the theater—usually smaller art house films but I’m also a sucker for sci-fi blockbusters.  My all time favorite film is Hedwig and the Angry Inch, and I’m super excited to be seeing the Broadway production of it this summer.

Favorite Food:  Favorite pastime is discovering new chef’s tasting menus, with wine pairings of course.mistress alex 3

Worst Pickup Line:  “You’re so hot—I wish you would switch so I could top you!”  Infuriating.  Immediate deletion without reply.

Worst Place That You Have Been Hit On:  I would have to say that Don Hill’s was both the worst and best place I’ve ever been hit on.  I miss that place!

What Approach Works For You:  Silently getting on knees and waiting for direction.

Funny Story About A Session:  I used to be part of a FemDom gang called the Violent Fems, and one time we did this kidnapping session where we lured our “victim” into the back of a moving van and drove around tormenting him for a while, then dropped him off in Gramercy, but we told him that he was in a really dangerous neighborhood and he had to face the wall of this church while we screeched away and left him there.  It was hilarious.

Turn Ons:  A truly submissive play partner.  Exhibitionism. Public scenes.  Fetish photography.  Gender non-conforming people.

mistress alex 4Tun Offs:  Insincerity.

Guilty Pleasures:  Game of Thrones!  RuPaul’s Drag Race!

Interesting Story:  Pretty much everyone I meet in the lifestyle and professional scene is really interesting, but I’m a stickler for discretion, so I don’t like to tell stories about people without their consent.  But there are plenty of interesting stories on my blog (MistressAlexNYC.com/blog)!


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